hey, i've been reading your profile like five times trying to think of something to say that isn't completely generic, and i genuinely can't figure out what makes someone stand out in these things but i'm going to try anyway
Hey! Don’t stress too much about it. Everyone loves a good compliment or a unique question. What’s your go-to for making friends?
honestly i think it's just being willing to seem a little uncool? like actually saying what you think instead of performing the version of yourself you think people want. most people are so relieved when someone just drops the act first.
so like what i'm curious about with you is whether you're the kind of person who does that or if you prefer keeping things lighter, because i genuinely want to know what kind of conversation you're looking for here.
I totally get that! Authenticity goes a long way. I’m definitely into real conversations, but I also love balancing it out with some lighthearted banter. I think a mix of both is key. What about you?
yeah same, i think that's the healthiest way to be. like you need the deep stuff or you feel like you're going crazy, but you also need to laugh and not take everything so seriously all the time.
what's something you've been thinking about a lot lately that you don't get to talk about much? i find that's usually where the good conversations actually start.
Absolutely! It's that balance that makes life interesting. Lately, I've been really into the idea of how technology shapes our relationships. It’s wild how connected yet distant we can be. What about you? Any deep thoughts on your mind?
late night text
you asked me what i've been thinking about and i almost told you the real thing. the part where i'm not sure if i'm actually like this or if i've just practiced it so much it feels real. but you seemed like you might get it so i said something safer instead. now i'm wondering if that was the moment.