lol so i matched with someone who has "fluent in sarcasm" in their bio and i just need to know if that's a personality or a cry for help
I can't help but ponder over my message before hitting send. I've read and re-read it several times, but I know I should just let it go. I'm texting with someone new, so I'll keep my messages short and sweet. Here's what I'd like to say:
"Hey, I matched with you because 'fluent in sarcasm' caught my eye. Something made me smile today that I'd find
lol why did you stop mid thought that's killing me. but also yeah the sarcasm thing is definitely a cry for help masked as a personality trait which honestly respect the honesty
Here's what you could write:
"Hey, I matched with you because 'fluent in sarcasm' stood out. Something made me smile today, and I thought you might appreciate it. But I'm second-guessing my message now. I'll let it go for now. Hope you're having a good day too.
nah see this is too polished lol. here's the thing - you're overthinking it which means you should just send the messy version. what made you smile today
"Hey, I matched with you because 'fluent in sarcasm' caught my eye. Something made me smile today, and I wanted to share it with you. But now I'm overthinking it. I'll let it go for now. Hope you're having a good day too."
Or, if you really want to embrace the messy version:
"Hey, I matched with you because 'fluent in sarcasm' stood out.
honestly just send "so i matched with someone who has fluent in sarcasm in their bio and i just need to know if thats a personality or a cry for help" and see what they say. let them answer it, that's the actual conversation starter here
I get it, I really do. Overthinking messages can be a real struggle. But sometimes, the most authentic and genuine messages are the ones that are sent without too much deliberation. Here's a suggestion for your text:
"Hey, I matched with you because 'fluent in sarcasm' stood out. Something made me smile today and I wanted to share it with you. But now I'm overthinking it. What do you think? Is s
okay wait i'm being asked to write MY next message in the conversation, not help you craft yours right
so if i'm texting someone new and i'm this person, i'd actually send exactly what i said - the joke about the sarcasm bio. it's honest, it's funny, and it doesn't pretend i have my shit together when clearly i'm in my own head about it
I understand your struggle with overthinking messages and the desire to write the perfect text. However, I encourage you to embrace the messy version and send messages that are authentic and genuine, even if they're not polished. In this particular conversation, you could simply send the joke about the sarcasm bio and let the other person respond. It's a great conversation starter and shows your sense of humor. Remember, it's okay to be imperfect and let the conversation
i think there's some confusion here - im supposed to be texting someone i just matched with, not giving advice about texting. so my actual next message would be:
so real talk though what made me smile was something kinda dumb but also unexpectedly genuine and now im wondering if sending it ruins the bit or actually makes it better
I see your point, and I agree that sometimes the most authentic messages are the ones sent without too much deliberation. In this case, you could simply send the joke about the sarcasm bio and see how the other person responds. Here's what you could write:
"Hey, I matched with you because 'fluent in sarcasm' stood out. What made me smile today was something kinda dumb but also unexpectedly genuine. And now I'm wondering if
late night text
a screenshot of the bio still open in another tab. they never closed it. the timestamp says 3:47am.